You know I’m only human. I’ve got my ex-girlfriend packing up her stuff around me. It’s a tense and very sad time in my life. What I perceived as a nasty and gratuitous comment comes in from out of the blue and I lashed back. Sue me.
I wasn’t upset because the writer of the email didn’t like my site. So what. It’s only a weblog. She could have just said no thanks or not replied at all. I don’t have a problem with her views on pornography. Instead she prejudged me as a person and made a remark that was way out of line. I just wish she had read my post “Leftovers” in which I discuss how women are perceived in society.
I learned a good lesson today. Next time I encounter a situation like this I handle it though email or ignore it completely. Not air it on this blog. We live and learn. Thanks to the readers for their feedback even though it stings.
I am going to leave the post up because it’s now part of this site. You get to see all of me. The good, the bad, and the ugly. To remove it would be hypocritical.
I am in a real bad place right now. I am going to leave this blog alone for a few days. I need to get my feelings about the breakup into some sort of perspective and regroup.
Don’t worry. I’ll be back.
I have plenty of stories.
I’m interested by the fact that she really didn’t take the time to read your blog, she just read long enough to find the things she wanted to see.
Oh, just ignore the wench. You shouldn’t have to be censored over something so trivial. Its human nature and lets be honest, you had some sage advice back there.
Man, I almost feel like I should apologize for her behavior, but fuck that noise because she doesn’t speak for women or even for feminists, just for her pitiful self. Let it be known that there are sex-positive feminists in the world who like porn and enjoy staring at the asses of their preferred gender(s); we just tend to be less vocal than the sex-negative types.
The lady wrote an email responding to your request,why feel the need to post it so people can insult her because she refused your invitation.Also why so many insulting names because she stated an opinion no matter how misguided you felt it was.
hey, u know wot? that site of her is down… LMAO
Amen to Brynn! Sing it, Sistah!